#WomenAreTrash (Part Two)

If y’all haven’t checked out part one you can right here: https://oukasnat.wordpress.com/2018/11/25/womenaretrash-part-one/

Every time I talked about “us” she would always swerve it and I didn’t know why because she would still be talking “that shit” on the phone.

Why was she dodging, but still talking on the phone like she wanted to do something?

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We worked at the same place so I would see her occasionally. On this particular day, she finished before me and she wanted to meet up after. After work, I was greeted with missed calls from her (we weren’t allowed our phones) so I immediately called her back and she told me to come over. Obviously, I needed to get home and change so after all of that I headed on my way. I’m outside now and I message her on my arrival, no answer. 5 minutes pass and still nothing, so I proceeded to call her, she was acting so surprised that I was there WHEN SHE WAS THE ONE WHO TOLD ME TO COME. Anyway, she said she was in the toilet and she’ll come and open the door…

Nope, THIS GIRL LEFT ME OUTSIDE IN THIS COVENTRY COLD FI DEAD. I then called Susan to let me in as there was no way I was making this trip for no reason.

So now I’m chilling in Susan’s room with Mahisan and after a while, Hannah walks in. I think she came to ask for something, but as soon as she saw my face, hers evolved into complete utter shock. This girl was acting so awkward and it really had me wondering what the hell was up. Anyway, I followed Hannah back to her room and she says to my face “I didn’t tell you to come”

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I said “Then what were you saying on the phone” and she responds with “I didn’t think you would come today”

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So I’m sitting in her room and she’s still acting extremely awkward and I’m still thinking about what is going on. After a while Susan steps in and asks “I’m going out does anyone need to be dropped home” and she immediately exclaims “Osi does!”

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(that was actually my response lol)

So I’m like “Alright kool, I’m going.” As I’m about to get up to leave she stops me and goes “I feel bad I’m sorry stay.” After a little squabble between us I ended up staying, but I honestly couldn’t bear to stay there anymore so I left 5 minutes. Fast forward now and it’s still the same shit. A new day at work and this time I was finished before her. She called telling me she would come over to mine so I gave her my address and everything, but I never heard back from her. After trying to get through her twice she finally picked up and as she was explaining “her coming” a hear a male voice in the background and she abruptly starts coughing then immediately hangs up.

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She messages the day after “I’m so sorry, my friend was in… blah blah blah” (to be honest I’m such an idiot for taking it that story because I KNEW, but let me just continue). We would always talk on WhatsApp and I decided to send her a voice note on the subject about “us” so there was no way she could step over it as she would. I mean if you’re going to talk the talk, you might as well walk the walk. A day after I sent the voice note her whole profile on WhatsApp goes blank. No profile picture, no bio, nothing. She then begins talking to me on SnapChat HEAVY. Any time I would post a story she would pop up, always hella active. At first, I didn’t really take any notice of it but then I really thought about it and asked myself “Why this sudden change to SnapChat?” Day’s have passed and still, there has been no response to my voice note, so then I decided to call Susan.

“Yo Susan, can you see Hannah’s profile picture on WhatsApp”

Susan: “Yeah”

“Can you see her bio, it should say positive vibes only or something like that”

Susan: “Yeah”

She then asks me what’s going on so I explained. After telling the whole story the then says to me “You know she has a boyfriend”

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Before I met her she was with this guy, the day I came after work her boyfriend was just there before me, it was her boyfriend’s voice before she cut the phone.

It all makes sense now.

I was in complete shock after hearing everything, but after coming off the phone with Susan I sent a lovely message to Hannah that went something like: “You’re a bitch and I know everything😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊” (I don’t know how many smiley emojis I sent, but it was a lot lol)

After blocking her number I was bombarded with a load of texts on after the other


“What are you talking about”


“Why would you listen to other people when they don’t know anything instead of me”


“OMG I’ve just seen your voice note I’m so sorry I didn’t respond”


“Please let me explain”

“Buzz” “Buzz” “Buzz”…

At the time I was on the phone to my friend (shout out Arin) and he could hear my phone buzzing off so he asked me what’s going on. I tell him this exact same story and he was just as in shock as I was because it was her as SHE SEEM’S LIKE THE SWEETEST GIRL EVER. He gives me advice on how to handle the situation so I hang up unblock her number and tell she can explain because she wanted to.

She starts off with “What do you know,” and it’s funny because Arin said she would and I should respond with “What do you think I know,” just to see how much she would bullshit. After a little back and forth with that she then begins to tell her… (honestly I don’t have the word to describe these lies she was spraying). To be honest with you looking back at it I can only blame myself, but that’s beside the point. Even after telling her I don’t want anything to do with her anymore she persisted on still hitting me up.

I could honestly go on and on about her compulsive lying, her “come to see me” messages, her “I love you, I made a mistake” messages and a whole bunch of other shit (all while still with her boyfriend), but there’s honestly no point. I’m not a home wrecker and I will never be so I’ll leave her to do what she wants, but it’s just sad because I know that guy always looked at me like I was the problem, but in reality…

I’ve told this story to a few people and the majority of the guys would say “You still fucked her though” or “You should have just continued, fuck her man.” But all of that shit just isn’t me. It’s shit like that why you girls stay giving us a bad name lol, but in honesty, you girls can be just as bad, or a matter of fact even worse.

(There would have been a perfect tweet here, but I can’t find it)

When I look back at this and all the other females who have come and gone in my life It’s amazing how it’s moulded me into the person I am today. We all have experienced something, but sometimes we have just had to learn the hard way (in my case multiple times). Through these experiences I’ve really changed the way I deal with people in general, especially new ones, and although I feel it would be nice to be in a relationship, I just don’t think it’s meant for me and it actually doesn’t really bother like it used to (even though I’ve been saying I’m being punished for something I did in my past life lol). Hopefully, everyone out there is having a better time in this department of life than I ever have (or probably will) and maybe I’ll be back with the season 2 of this story because that’s the actual serious stuff, but who knows. I have one more story for y’all before I bring out something I’ve been putting on hold so watch out for that!

Big Os out ✌🏽

3 Comments Add yours

  1. gromperekichelcher says:

    Now I get why you liked my blog post. Keep chugging along brew, best of luck to you in your endeavors πŸ™‚

    Liked by 1 person

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