This is a hard question to answer because I have changed through me not changing at all (I know, it makes perfect sense). At my core, I’m exactly the same person, which I believe everyone is. Life experiences evolve you so you “move differently,” but I don’t think at your core you change. If you’re hopeless romantic, you’re always going to be hopeless romantic despite many failed relationships. You just might be more cautious, etc.
This kind of goes for me. I’m still the same broken emotional wreck I was two years ago, I just go about it differently, and have a lot more resilience than I did (which isn’t saying much, to be honest). I’ve just added more outer rings to my shell that uniquely help me deal with the shitness of this life I’m living.
(incase you didn’t know what I was talking about)
But I still need a hell of a lot more…
That’s an interesting perspective, I never thought of it that way especially when it comes to relationships. Same would go for commitment phobia I guess, and anxiety and depression, it never really goes away, we just learn how to deal with it better (hopefully).
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