Day 21 – Something You Can’t Seem to Get Over

Everything, but nothing. You see, I’m not a person that forgives and forgets, because I can’t forget. But at the same time, it’s not something that is bothering bothering me. I don’t care (these days). For me, you can’t forgive and not forget because those two things are mutually exclusive to me. I can’t be reminded of a violation and think “Oh, you’re kool now.” It unsettles my spirit. I’m not saying people can’t change etc. because they can, but you can do that away from me if you’ve done me wrong in any form in the past.

2 Comments Add yours

  1. Sophia Ismaa says:

    I think, for me, I can tell when someone apologises and they’re genuinely remorseful. But if they aren’t, I don’t want anything to do with them because why would I invite a person so negligent, irresponsible and hurtful in my life, it’s welcoming disrespect and a violation of your dignity. It’s a no from me.

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    1. officialosi says:

      It depends on the violation. Sometimes it’s not even that bad, but it’s the principle of it. But as you said “It’s a no from me.”


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