Lol, like I’m even on anyone’s list.
But, you don’t need to do 10 things to win my heart, you only need to do one thing. Show me you value me as a human being. I feel that one thing umbrellas everything you could possibly want a person to do/how to behave. By the way, this doesn’t mean do something big like buying me a car or something. It can honestly be something so small.
There was this one time I was “with” this girl, and we were texting on the phone and I was feeling ill that day. She was asking how I was, and I was telling her I was ill and that to which she didn’t respond. At the time, I wasn’t really worried about that because the way I was feeling was more concerning. But after a while, she messaged me “I’m outside.”
In my head, I’m thinking “What? Why is she outside?” At first, I didn’t believe her, but she told me to open the door in which I did, and low and behold, there she is standing outside.
“I brought you wings because you were feeling ill, I hope you get better” (I’m paraphrasing).
She then went straight back to her car and left.
Fam, I was in shock.
I remember going back into my room and sitting at the edge of the bed for ages with this container of wings just deeping (realising) what has just happened. I told this girl I was feeling ill. She now gets out of her bed (and I know that’s where she was because she was lazy as fuck lol), walked to the kitchen. Made wings/got wings to put in a container. Drove to my house (which was fucking far btw) just to give me wings because I was feeling ill.
No human on this earth has ever ever ever gone out of their way so much for me in my entire life. And even though we don’t speak anymore, that shit still gives me a mad feeling to this day because I’m not used to that, and I’m still not.
The point is, if you can show me in even the smallest way you value me as a human being, I might be more open to the idea of you because I particularly have high hopes when it comes to this relationship thing.